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Insight for January 2026   

Happy New Year to you!

As we enter the new year, take some time to center yourself and take the time to set at least one goal – to allow this year to be filled with good things which follow you, as opposed to striving and struggling with situations coming across your path. Look for an alternative perspective instead of reaching initially for the negative train of thought.

Letting go of Guilt and Worry

As we jumpstart January, be reminded that it’s okay to shake things off which no longer serve you. In particular, two emotions that some of us tend to hold on to longer than necessary are Guilt and Worry.

Let’s have a look at these two emotions in depth:

Guilt

You tend to experience Guilt for several reasons:

- You engage in an action that is out of sync with your beliefs and/morals;
- You believe that you’re not good enough, doing enough or haven’t done enough, or haven’t done the right thing;
- You have the mistaken belief that you are loved for what you do, instead of who you are, therefore feel undeserving of love;
- The need to make everyone happy.

In this lifetime, you can aid others on a wide scale with advice or motivation, however, because everyone has freewill, it’s up to them to make the choice they believe is best for them. Working as an earth angel, this can be frustrating as you’re aware of the miraculous solutions which can occur within a short space of time when one is “tuned in”. As a result, you may feel guilty when things don’t work out as effectively for someone else as you know they can. You see how the person is suffering, all due to their freewill choice. Generally, people don’t listen to their guardian angels or don’t trust the divine messages they receive. They prefer to listen to voices from human bodies, and some are loathe to do any spiritual work on themselves.

On other hand, guilt also sets in when you feel you’re doing something that goes against your belief system e.g. partaking in alcohol or drugs which are harmful and low vibrational. Same goes for eating junk food, cheating, lying, etc. The natural consequence is Guilt.

Guilt is a low vibration energy which clips the wings of lightworkers. It makes them less effective as healers and manifesters.

If you are engaging in behaviours you don’t feel good about, there are a couple of ways to handle this:

1. Stop doing the disturbing behaviour! This is most likely the healthiest route to take, and while it’s not the easiest path, this option will allow makes you stronger and raises your self-esteem; or
2. Change your belief about the behaviour! Guilt is more toxic than any behaviour you engage in, so if you’re going to continue with it, it’s important you let go of the guilt surrounding it. Meditate, pray, do research, talk to trusted people, and take other healthy steps to realign your beliefs about the behaviour so that you truly can engage in it guilt-free.

Free Will

A lot of guilt occurs because other people are unhappy and earth angels blame themselves for being unable to fix them. This is where you are reminded of “freewill choices”. Most of us naturally assume that everyone wants to be happy as happiness is the highest vibration, and it’s healing and healthy. So why wouldn’t everyone want to be happy?

In spiritual truth, everyone is created equally happy, because we’re made in the image and likeness of God, who’s pure bliss, joy, and happiness. So deep down, our souls are happy!

But in this 3-D physical world of duality and polarities, there are opposing forces to everything. The opposite of happiness would be depression. Some people’s lives are dedicated to experiencing duality opposites, and they go to dark extremes in order to push their ability to feel.

There are some people who don’t feel alive unless they feel depressed. One could argue that an earth angel may fall into that category too especially if they’re not allowing themselves to be happy, just because someone close to them is unhappy. Aren’t they then also contributing to unhappiness in the world?

Wanting everyone to be happy ultimately is very controlling. You’re making the decision for others what emotional state they should be in and may even pressure them to follow your advice so that they can feel happy. One can only advise and motivate, and it is up to the receiver whether to accept or reject this advice, through their free will choice.

Everyone makes their own choices, and while you can be a very positive influence and role model for others, in the end it’s up to them to choose whether to be happy or not. Love means respecting someone’s choices for themselves.

Of course, if a loved one goes into clinical depression, you’d definitely want to intervene and seek professional help. Depression can lead to serious health consequences and even suicide.

For an average amount of sadness, give people space to make up their own minds if that’s how they want to live. This will make your life a whole lot easier. You don’t need to be in charge anymore which is a wonderful freeing realization! Remember, if you don’t enjoy being with someone who chooses to be chronically unhappy, know that you don’t have to spend time with them!

Worry

Worry arises when you try to control the future by trying to figure out what bad things may happen so you can prevent them.

The trouble with using worry as a control device is that the opposite of what you desire mostly occurs. Things tend to happen that you’re worrying about. It’s like a magnet! Worry is an extremely low-vibrational energy that seeps into your body and mind, actually helping you to manifest that which you don’t want, like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Worry also tends to push other people away. They pick up on the low vibrational energy. It will leave you feeling flat and lonely, especially in times when you need the support the most.

If you had parents that worried a lot, you may have picked up this habit and adopted this behaviour as a normal way of life. Telling a child that you worry about them because you love them, allows them to grow up confusing worry with love. Naturally, it’s normal to be worried about your children, but when you realise that this emotion isn’t helpful at all and can often lead to negative results, it would be best to turn this around and use motivational terms instead.

Worry can also become an addictive coping habit. In turn, excessive worry can lead to substance addictions when you turn to them in an effort to calm down.

People who have led harsh and challenging lives and may have only known pain, tend to have a sense of doom-and-gloom about their future. They inevitably expect that nothing will go right and this is their way of coping – to expect disappointment at all times. However, besides self-prophesying the outcome, they also encourage illness to manifest in their bodies – panic attacks, muscular tension, cardiovascular disease, and suppression of the immune system, to name a few.

To help bring a better future for yourself without resorting to worry, here are a few options you may wish to consider:

1. Avoid stimulants in food and beverages: Coffee, tea, sodas, energy drinks, chocolate, sugar, and other stimulants can make your body nervous and tense, and your mind will attribute this tension to anxiety.
2. Exercise: Blowing off steam through cardiovascular exercise such as jogging, running, using an elliptical trainer, yoga, fast walking, swimming, cycling, dancing, and so forth is a wonderful way to reduce or eliminate the worry habit.
3. Turn worries into prayers: Worrying never helps with anything, but prayers always help everything. The next time you’re fretting about something, frame your concern into a complete sentence. Either write the worry down on paper, type it on your computer, or say the complete sentence out loud.

By facing your worries, you defuse the power they hold over you. Worries left inside and unconscious, are what create the low-level rumblings of anxiety in the background of your mind and emotions. Next, put the words God, please help me with this. . . in front of the worry. You have now turned your worry into a prayer.

As you know, God and the angels can only help you if you give them permission. They respect your freewill choices and will only intervene if you ask. So by turning worries into prayers, you have just allowed heaven to support you with miraculous solutions.

~ Adaption from Assertiveness for Earth Angels ~

I am open again in the evening for appointments after taking a short break. If anything, I’m feeling more energetic than ever and have completely rearranged all cupboards and drawers at home. My cats, Topsy and Red, have gained considerable weight as they’ve been on a festive season diet. It’s the first time in many years that they didn’t have to go to “summer camp” over the festive season and we made the most of it!

I’ll be raising prices slightly in March for the first time in many years. Please, a reminder not to make a deposit into my account before confirming an appointment. Once a date and time is confirmed, then I’ll notify you when payment is due.

Wishing you all the best for the forthcoming months. I look forward to hearing your stories of how things have turned around for you. Miracles happen every day. Always expect that from the universe and it will deliver.

Much love and blessings
Dianne 

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