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Insight for November 2026   

Welcome to November!

The final countdown! What a long year this has been! 😊

As we head for the last couple of months, people are showing their frustration more and more and tempers are short. The art of driving has become like navigating a mine field here in Johannesburg. If one isn’t dodging a pothole, then one is dodging an impatient driver! Staying close to home and only doing short trips has become the norm for me at this point.

This month’s newsletter is short and sweet as most of us are tired and overwhelmed with life. Let’s take the month to just be again and to tackle only that which we absolutely have-to.

A recurring pattern I’ve observed over the years is the strong desire for lasting, meaningful partnerships – a sentiment shared by clients and friends alike. And recently there have been several conversations around this topic. Nothing wrong with wanting a wonderful partner, except several peeps mentioned that when they meet someone they will mold them into the person they desire, if they don’t present with all they want in a character. To this end, I found a suitable article written by a well-known former top-selling New Age author and "Angel Lady" who dramatically converted to conservative Christianity and now actively denounces her past work. However, this article is still pertinent today and I’m taking the liberty to share it below.

PEOPLE AREN’T FIXER-UPPERS

Because Earth Angels are so intuitive, they can often see the potential within others. In fact, it’s very common for Earth Angels to fall in love with other people’s potential. They take on friends and lovers who are “fixer-upper” projects.

Earth Angels unconsciously decide, I can polish this person’s finer qualities and really make him a good person! Some Earth Angels decide that they’ll turn a prospective lover into their ideal husband or wife. Then they get upset when that person doesn’t want to change!

It’s not fair to enter any relationship, whether of a personal or business nature, with the hidden agenda that you’ll fix or change that person. Everyone wants and deserves to be liked or loved for who they are (and that includes you, too). While everyone can use improvement, people don’t want to be controlled or told what to do.

As Earth Angels, we’re naturally trusting. We also have the ability to see the good within everyone. We love a fixer-upper project, and that often includes “collecting” people who we believe need fixing up. However, the truth is that nobody wants to be fixed or changed, even if it would improve their lives. If they do desire change, they want it on their own terms and not coming from someone else.

Your job isn’t to fix or change other people. You can help other people. You can heal them and pray for them. But your job is to heal yourself and be the most loving person you can during your lifetime. Love means being honest with others in peaceful ways. In love relationships especially, you’ll be continually frustrated and disappointed if you think you can “turn a sow’s ear into a silk purse” and transform an incompatible person into your dream partner. It’s best to be up front with a new boy- or girlfriend about your needs and desires in a relationship. If your dream is to be married, have children, and stay home to raise them – then tell the person before you enter a committed relationship.

Don’t wait until your second anniversary to spring this news. It’s not fair, and you’ll both have wasted your time and endured needless heartache if he admits that having children isn’t in his life plan.

Deal-Breakers

In all relationships, there are “deal-breakers,” meaning issues, behaviours, or situations for which you won’t stand.

Common deal-breakers include:
Dishonesty
Betrayal
Cheating
Any form of abuse

You may have additional deal-breakers such as:
Must be a nonsmoker
Must have good hygiene
Must be romantic
Must make a certain amount of money
Must have a fit physique
Must be a good stepparent to your children
Must not abuse drugs
Must have a spiritual or religious beliefs similar to yours
Must love cats [. . . and so forth]

If he or she doesn’t have the deal-or-no-deal qualities you’re seeking, the relationship is over. To you, there’s no compromising on deal-breakers. Yet for some Earth Angels, there’s a secret deal she makes without letting her partner know. She secretly decides she’s going to “fix” his deal-breaking habits and turn him into her ideal mate. She fantasizes that her love is so special that he’ll give up drugs, gambling, womanizing, and other toxic behaviours. When he resists or relapses, she gets angry and blames him, instead of realizing that he was always this way! She knew, going into the relationship, that he had these issues. So it’s really a matter of accepting responsibility for her choices and then forgiving herself for making them. Almost every week on my call-in radio show or at one of my workshops, a woman will ask me if her boyfriend or husband will change. She tells me he’s violating her deal-breakers. She asks, “Should I leave him? Will things ever get better?” (Meaning: Will he become the ideal man of whom I dream?)

My million-dollar question to someone who asks me this is: “If nothing ever changes about him or in the relationship and it stays exactly the way it is now, would you be happy?” I always hear a gasp of surprise in response to this question, and a pause. Then a shaky voice always says, “No.” She has just realized that she has two choices: stay in an incompatible relationship or leave. She realizes that her entire relationship was built upon a fantasy that he’d magically change into a different person: If he really loved me, he’d be like me. If he was my soul mate, he’d have the same outlook on life as I do. If they break up, hopefully she doesn’t hang on to resentment toward him. It wasn’t his fault that he was incompatible with her. That fact was revealed at the outset of the relationship! She just chose to ignore it, because she looked upon him as a fixer-upper project, which was never wise or fair.

If you ignore the red flags that the angels send you when you’re about to enter a relationship, don’t blame the angels or the other person when the relationship turns out to be unhealthy. You had your warnings, but you chose to overlook or ignore them. Perhaps you thought, This time it will be different, or My love will change him.
Next time you get red flags, please turn around and go the other way.

You’re Not a Fixer-Upper, Either!

Earth Angels think that if they change, other people will be nicer to them. If they’re sweeter, thinner, sexier, richer, more successful, prettier, smarter, better-dressed, and so forth, then they’ll be accepted. They’ll finally feel the big love that they remember feeling in heaven.

Changing yourself to win love is a desperate attempt to control another person’s opinion of you! Let it go! Love yourself as you are, and only “improve” yourself because you’re guided to – not to get someone to love you. In other words, make self-improvements because it makes you happy.

~ Assertiveness for Earth Angels ~

With the elections this week, let's surround ourselves and our voting stations with divine, peaceful energy. Let's pray for calm, respectful spaces and trust that God and the angels are holding South Africa in their hands.

Until soon!
Dianne 

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